About Hugo’s Rules
Hugo's Rules
Guidance, Healing & Other Fun Stuff
Guidance, Healing & Other Fun Stuff
- Now is the Time for a New Choice
- Embrace Silence.
- Love Heals All Things. Start by Loving Yourself.
- Assume 100% Responsibility For Yourself.
- You have 0% Responsibility for Everyone else.
- Relationships are the means of Your Growth.
- You are Unlimited and have All The Power.
- You are Free.
- There is no Death.
- There are no Accidents or Coincidences.
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- Now is the Time for a New Choice
- Embrace Silence.
- Love Heals All Things. Start by Loving Yourself.
- Assume 100% Responsibility For Yourself.
- You have 0% Responsibility for Everyone else.
- Relationships are the means of Your Growth.
- You are Unlimited and have All The Power.
- You are Free.
- There is no Death.
- There are no Accidents or Coincidences.
- You are not Guilty nor are you a Victim.
- Do not Condemn or Judge.
- Do not Compare or Conform.
- Never Blame or Complain.
- There are no Secrets.
- We are ALL Connected.
- You are Not Alone
- Joy, Abundance, Effortlessness, Fun and Laughter are your birthrights.
- There are No Rules, Only Experiences.
Guidance, Healing & Other Fun Stuff
Guidance, Healing & Other Fun Stuff
Guidance, Healing & Other Fun Stuff
- Know Yourself
- Dysfunctional Relationships
- Toxic Relationships
- Narcissistic Relationships
- Karmic Relationships
- Healing Relationships
- Soulmates and Twin Flames
- Getting your Ex Back
- Making New Choices
- Finding Your Purpose
- Living Your Purpose
- Special Events
- Online Workshops
- Healing Retreat Mexico
- Healing Retreat Thailand
- Healing Retreat Bali
Some Background
Guidance, Healing & Other Fun Stuff
Some Background
Hi, my name is Marwan Aboukhater, I have Over 60 years of life and relationships experiences.
Growing up and moving residences in several countries, going through education, dating, careers, businesses, marriage, separation, divorce, raising children as a single parent due to my ex wife mental issues, going through toxic and narcissistic r
Hi, my name is Marwan Aboukhater, I have Over 60 years of life and relationships experiences.
Growing up and moving residences in several countries, going through education, dating, careers, businesses, marriage, separation, divorce, raising children as a single parent due to my ex wife mental issues, going through toxic and narcissistic relationships and embracing spirituality.
After going through several rough patches in my life with marriage, businesses, careers, health and relationships issues, I finally reached a point where there must be a better way. This cannot continue.
What is the meaning of all this?
Why I am here?
Who am I?
Where is this going?
I would be at a restaurant with one of my ex girlfriends and would start to wonder “What the heck am I doing?”
”Is this all there is to life or relationships?”
I had read many books, watched a lot of contents, attended retreats in search of answers.
Answers started coming when I became SILENT.
I started to cherish silence. I would wake up very early in the mornings around 3 or 4 am and just sit in bed in silence. Close my eyes, take deep breaths and relax.
I would also sometimes sit in the car, close all windows, put ear plugs and just sit in silence.
A day came and I decided. I packed my things, left my apartment, left my work as IT consultant, left my dysfunctional relationship and went on a trip. I had no idea what I really wanted, I did not know where I would eventually go or where I will end up. I had no idea what to do about work or my so called relationship. I gave up, I let go in NOT KNOWING anything.
One thing I knew, That whatever I was going through was not working. It was full of relentless efforts with diminishing returns, not much of any tangible results, no longer enjoyable no longer fulfilling. No longer FUN.
I felt STUCK.
There must be another way. I wanted to make another CHOICE.
One day, after several months of wandering about in Mexico, Columbia, and Thailand, I found myself in the island of Phuket. I was in a small beach club sitting on a bean bag overlooking a beautiful sunset.
When suddenly a vision came to me to start a Life, Relationship and Spiritual guidance and coaching service. I had not done this before on a professional basis, however, many of my close friends and relatives had always come to me seeking advice, guidance with their issues or problems. I even did a stint as door to door Bible preacher several decades ago.
The new vision came with the Rules or Guidance that allowed me to reach more healing, forgiveness, understanding, remembering who I AM, reclaiming my power and birthrights, making new choices, CREATING New Life experiences and much more.
The new Vision came with the name also. Hugo's Rules.
Why Hugo?
The name of the Beach Club I was in was called Hugo's.
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